If someone asks me what my favorite cue to teach is, I don't think of something fun like shake or spin, I think of Go to mat.
For those of you not familiar, Go to mat is a down/stay in a place and this place is movable. Essentially, Go to mat means relaxing and stilling the body in the midst of happenings. It means asking your puppy to stay on a spot that’s been conditioned as a positive spot to lay, be, rest, and feel safe, while movement happens in the same room.
In this video, Silas is practicing his Go to mat while I make my morning smoothie. He stayed on the mat for about 5 minutes while I went around and around my kitchen - gathering vitamins, unpeeling bananas, finding the right fruit, blending it up. The kitchen is a great place to use your Go to mat, once it’s ready. I can keep an eye on Silas while I cook as well as giving him practice staying still, while I do a lot of different movements that often elicit following.
At this point, Silas has had multiple training sessions with his mat. Stage one can be seen here, with Sienna learning a “go to bed” with her brother Rory back in 2020. Once they’ve got that down, you want to work with moving about just a bit so they understand that you will move, change position, turn attention away and they will still mat while this is happening. Frequenting treating helps the dog to understand what to do (stay on mat) and builds up a good association with the mat (the mat is where the treats will be, why would I want to be anywhere else?).
Teaching a dog to rest in the midst of things happening is key to having a puppy who travels with you, goes to friend’s or family’s home with you, and can be out while you have meals. It’s also a key component to emotional regulation for your puppy/dog. WIthout having breaks, your dog can be over-extended, over-tired, and struggle.
I love that this skill means that my dog can do more and that they can learn how to separate themselves from happenings and rest.
What a skill! The human equivalent that comes to mind is a yoga mat or a meditation pillow. It’s something that you carry with you so that when you need a retreat without being separated. What else might fit?
P.S. The best mats for this are crate mats, comfy towels, bath mats, or part of a yoga mat. (We had a client once who had a kid’s yoga mat - smaller size and a cute image of a frog on it).
P.P.S. Emotional regulation is a skill that your dog/puppy can learn. In addition to having a good relationship with a mat, we want them to have a good spot to rest that is out of the room while things happen, such as a crate, ex-pen, or room where they can relax and rest with less sound, movement, and visual stimulation. We call this a Zen Zone.
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